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Ó¢ÎÄ»éÀñÖ÷³Ö´ÊÀ´Ô´£º×÷Õߣº·¢²¼Ê±¼ä£º2008-12-21ÎÒ½«ÒÔÕâÖ»ÊÖ½â³ýÄãµÄÓÇÉËÄãµÄ¾Æ±½«ÓÀÔ¶Ó¯ÂúÒòΪÎÒÊÇÄãµÄÃÀ¾ÆÎÒ½«ÒÔÕâ¸ùÀ¯ÖòΪÄãµãÁÁºÚ°µ²¢ÒÔÕâÖ»»é½äÈ¢ÄãΪÆÞWiththishand,I'llliftyoursorrows.Yourcupwillneverempty,forI,willbeyourwine.Withthiscandle,I'lllightyourwayindarkness.Withthisring,IaskyoutobemineÒ»ÉúµÄÊÄÑÔ£º£©~~¶ø½ñ¶øºó£¬²»ÂÛ¾³ÓöºÃ»µ£¬¼Ò¾³Æ¶¸»£¬Éú²¡Óë·ñ£¬ÊÄÑÔÏàÇ×Ïà°®£¬ÖÁËÀ²»·ÖÀë¡££¨Tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherish,tilldeathdouspart.£©Theweddingitselfusuallylastsbetween20and40minutes.Theweddingpartyentersthechurchwhiletheweddingmarchisplayed.Thebridecarryingabouquetenterslastwithherfatherwhowillgiveheraway.Thegroomentersthechurchfromasidedoor.Whentheweddingpartyisgatheredbythealtar,thebrideandgroomexchangevows.ItistraditionaltousethewordsTohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherish,tilldeathdouspart[3].Followingthevows,thecoupleexchangerings.Wearingtheweddingringonthefourthfingerofthelefthandisanoldcustom.Aftertheceremonythereisoftenaparty,calledareceptionwhichgivestheweddingguestsanopportunitytocongratulatethenewlyweds.Ó¢ÎĽá»éÊÄ´ÊMinister:WearegatheredheretodayinthesightofGod,andinthefaceofthiscompany,tojointogether(Groom¡¯sName)and(Bride¡¯sName)inholymatrimony;whichisanhonorableestate,institutedofGod,sincethefirstmanandthefirstwomanwalkedontheearth.Therefore;itisnottobeenteredintounadvisedlyorlightly,butreverentlyandsoberly.Intothisholyestatethesetwopersonspresentcomenowtobejoined.Ifanyonecanshowjustcausewhytheymaynotbelawfullyjoinedtogether,letthemspeaknoworforeverholdtheirpeace.Whogivesthiswomantobemarriedtothisman?Father:MywifeandIdo.(Thenthebrideisgivenaway)Minister:Irequireandchargeyouboththatifeitherofyouknowanyimpedimentwhyyoumaynotbelawfullyjoinedtogetherinmatrimony,youconfessitnow.BeassuredthatifanypersonsarejoinedtogetherotherwisethanasGod¡¯swordallows,theirmarriageisnotlawful.(Minister:addressingthegroom)(Groom¡¯sName),doyoutake(Bride¡¯sName)foryourlawfulweddedwife,tolivetogetherafterGod¡¯sordinance,intheholyestateofmatrimony?Willyoulove,honor,comfort,andcherishherfromthisdayforward,forsakingallothers,keepingonlyuntoherforaslongasyoubothshalllive?Groom:Ido.(Minster:addressingthebride):(Bride¡¯sName),doyoutake(Groom¡¯sName)foryourlawfulweddedhusband,tolivetogetherafterGod¡¯sordinance,intheholyestateofmatrimony?Willyoulove,honor,comfort,andcherishhimfromthisdayforward,forsakingallothers,keepingonlyuntohimforaslongasyoubothshalllive?Bride:Ido.(Atthispointthecouplemayimprovisebyplayingafavoritesong,readingascripture,etc.suggestedscripturesmightbegenesis2:21-25,mark10:6-8and1cor13:4-7)Reader1:AreadingfromthebookofGenesis,chapter2,versus21through25:SotheLordGodcausedthemantofallintoadeepsleep;andwhilehewassleeping,hetookoneoftheman¡¯sribsandcloseduptheplacewithflesh.ThentheLordGodmadeawomanfromtheribhehadtakenoutoftheman,andhebroughthertotheman.Themansaid,¡°thisisnowboneofmybonesandfleshofmyflesh;sheshallbecalled¡¯woman,¡¯forshewastakenoutofman.¡°forthisreasonamanwillleavehisfatherandmotherandbeunitedtohiswife,andtheywillbecomeoneflesh.Themanandhiswifewerebothnaked,andtheyfeltnoshame.Reader2:AreadingfromthegospelofMark,chapter10,versus6through8:ButatthebeginningofcreationGodmadethemmaleandfemale.Forthisreasonamanwillleavehisfatherandmotherandbeunitedtohiswife,andthetwowillbecomeoneflesh.Sotheyarenolongertwo,butone.Reader3:AreadingfromtheApostlePaul,thefirstlettertotheCorinthians,chapter13,verses4through7:Loveispatient,loveiskind.Itdoesnotenvy,itdoesnotboast,itisnotproud.Itisnotrude,itisnotself-seeking,itisnoteasilyangered,itkeepsnorecordofwrongs.Lovedoesnotdelightinevilbutrejoiceswiththetruth.Italwaysprotects,alwaystrusts,alwayshopes,alwaysperseveres.Minister:Letusprayforthismanandwomanastheymaketheirmarriagevows.Father,as(Groom¡¯sName)and(Bride¡¯sName)havechoseneachother,helpthemandblessthemthattheirlovemaybepure,andtheirvowsmaybetrue.ThroughJesusChristourLord,Amen.(Minister:addressingthegroomwhorepeatsthemarriagevows):I(Groom¡¯sName)takethee(Bride¡¯sName)tobemyweddedwife,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetterforworse,forricherforpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,tolove,honor,andcherish,¡¯tildeathdouspart,accordingtoGod¡¯sholyordinance;andtheretoIplighttheemytroth.(Minister:thentothebridewhorepeatsthemarriagevows):I(Bride¡¯sName)takethee(Groom¡¯sName)tobemyweddedhusband,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetterforworse,forricherforpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,tolove,honor,andcherish,¡¯tildeathdouspart,accordingtoGod¡¯sholyordinance;andtheretoIplighttheemytroth.(TheMinisterthengetsthebridesringfromthebestman)Minister:(prayingoverbridesring):Lord,blessthisringthathewhogivesitandshewhowearsitmayabideinyourpeace,andcontinueinyourfavoruntillife¡¯send,throughJesusChristourLord,Amen.(Groom:placingringonbride¡¯sfinger):WiththisringItheewed.Wearitasasymbolofourloveandcommitment.Minister:(prayingovergroom¡¯sring):Lord,blessthisringthatshewhogivesitandhewhowearsi